Do i have to do the dating chain?

i want a guy but i dont want to do the chain of dating thing. like one person then another one and another. my ex bf already has a new gf and i can see that he's gonna end up having lots and lots more. it seems like everyone does that but its not what i want. do i have to go thru a bunch of guys to find the right one? i dont want a big string of guys behind me. is it just life? i dont like the idea of staying with ppl for a couple months or a year then switching them out. its sad.

Public Comments

1. I think the same way, i never have had a girlfriend because i do not want to have 5 ex girlfriends. I have liked a few girls, and i always get turned down saying 'you are just my friend' or 'i think of you as a brother'. But one day, we will find the right person. Do not just date some guy so you can say you have a boyfriend, just wait until you find a good one again!
2. You don't have to go through many guys to find the right one for you. While you are single, you should focus on your holistic being. Don't date someone just because they ask you out. You will come across many people but cutting out casual relationships is best. Besides the man has to find you, and you have to realize that he will be worth the wait and you will be the same to him. When you look for love, you will most likely find the opposite of what you're looking for.